January 1, 2018 – New Year, New Me

My name is Chad Mast. Welcome to The Masculine Fire.

I was challenged by my good friend and mentor Dan Borland to create a blog page with the intention of channeling the necessary energy towards starting my motivational coaching business. This blog will be simple. There won’t be lots of bells and whistles. I intend to keep it simple so I don’t become swallowed up in overthinking the details of what I think it should be. See, I’ve been focused too much on the details of too many unnecessary things for too long. I think it’s easy for us to place too much attention on what we perceive the big picture should be and to project our insecurities and fears onto that picture.

For myself, that fear has been around starting a motivational and life coaching business. I came up with the idea in 2015 after having taken the Gallup Strengthsfinder test. My test results indicated that life coaching may be a profession my Strengths would serve well in. Intrigued, I did some research and immediately fell in love with the idea of being a coach and helping people find their purpose in a wayward life. I came up with the name of my business and quickly purchased rights to the domain name. I’ve rented that domain name for over two and a half years now and I have never done anything to start building the website for my business. Why? Fear. I’m scared of stepping away from the security and comfort of IT which is what I’ve been doing for the last ten years.

Have you ever complained about something so long that you get sick of hearing yourself talk about it? That’s where I’m at with my coaching business and feeling ‘stuck’. Am I capable of building a website? Hell yeah I am. Will I be a good motivational coach? You’re damn right I will. I have had multiple people tell me that I’m going to be an excellent coach, that the advice and support I gave them was vital to helping them shift their perspective on their life. I have the intelligence, the drive and the affirmation to do this, so why do I feel stuck? Because I’m afraid. I’m afraid of stepping outside of my comfort zone. I’m afraid that I overestimate my ability to help people despite the words of praise I’ve received.

I’ve labeled 2018 as ‘The Year I Recapture My Heart’. That’s where the inspiration for The Masculine Fire was born. At the end of 2018, I want to look back at this year and say, “Yeah, I definitely recaptured my heart and reignited the masculine fire within it.” I hope you will walk with me on my journey. It’ll be nice to have company.

Thanks for taking the time to read this post.

6 thoughts on “January 1, 2018 – New Year, New Me

  1. Chad, I am so incredibly proud of you. You have taken action, you have taken steps to control your fear, instead your fear controlling you. You are taking what’s in your heart and soul and bringing it into reality. I believe in you and have no doubt, that you will continue to touch the lives of countless people, connecting and helping them navigate life’s journey and all that is associated with it.

    I used to tell you to make it happen. Now I can say, keep making it happen!

    Love you brother and again, I am proud of you.

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  2. You beautiful man, you! Look at you go! There are leagues of people here to support you – and plenty more who need your help. You can do this. And when you are frightened, just reach out – we’ll be here. ❤ So much love to you!!!

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  3. You have always my friend, but more importantly my hero. You’ve picked me up just by words. Reminding me I am strong enough. Listen to your own advice and don’t be afraid of what you will be so great at. Helping people. You my friend, are going to accomplish this. I have all the faith in the world in you.


  4. Not a doubt in my mind that you wouldn’t do amazing. I saw it in you. Here’s a thought…try a transition stage? Perhaps you can provide life coaching on the weekends or evenings after IT work? Once you build a steady clientele then you can go full force? You’ll make it happen 😉


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